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the bold and the beautiful

beautiful things and moments inspire. it could be a good book, the falling of autumn leaves, jazz, a child hiding playfully behind their mother, or my favorite, dinner at the Parlor Market. these moments are all around us daily, but how often do we miss them when we are caught up in the mundanities of life. not noticing them is like fog covering a stunning view— although the view is still there, you aren't privy to it.

in order to dispel the fog, one must make the decision to not only look for the beautiful moments but to create them. when you do this you open up to all that is good and pure and true. it is the essence of that Emily Dickerson quote that says "I dwell in possibility." although beauty is subjective, it's powers are limitless. no one can tell you what beauty is for you, you know it when you see it. you know it when you feel it open you up. such is its power.

fashion for yourself a world in which you become intimate with the beautiful. if you have to, mail yourself a floral arrangement of hydrangeas or go to the reservoir to watch the sunset while sipping a glass of Riesling. learn to tango with your lover. whatever it is, come to it with all of your being and bask therein.

this could change your life.

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